Though there are two people in this position, there are four possible movement combinations that you can experiment with when using the Fleshlight. First, the Fleshlight can remain steady, and he can thrust into it; this is how most men fuck in missionary. Second, he can remain steady, and the Fleshlight can be moved up and down; this is how most men masturbate and is the common movement for woman on top or sex in a swing or hammock. Third, both partners move in opposite directions, which is common during standing rear-entry and sometimes for missionary. Finally, there is a combination of all three of the above.
Also note:
For many men, a Fleshlight orgasm is more intense than manual stimulation alone, and they need additional time to prepare for more sex. Consequently, there is no Transition position in this chapter as the man may not be able to progress to the next position.
POSITION 2:
Shake It Up
Two longtime porno fads (that even non-porn stars gossip about) are the DV (double vaginal penetration), where two penises enter one vagina, and the DP (double penetration), where the woman enjoys one cock in her pussy and another in her ass. For personal safety and health, many people are not comfortable having a second penis in their bedroom—who is the guy and how safe is he?—much less side-by-side in the woman’s vagina. That’s where a dildo or vibrator can come in to fulfill the fantasy.
Move to a chair, so that she can lean back against you.
Lean back into him so that your vagina lowers onto his penis. If you’re using a vibrator, turn it on and place it against your clitoris.
Relax and feel the vibrations through her vagina and into your penis. If the vibrator is going to join you as a second male partner for double penetration, make room for the pseudo-cock by switching to a position that gives you or the toy anal access: rear-entry or woman on top.
Be careful: Adding a vibrator next to his penis could make him come faster. If you need to slow things down, you can place the vibrator on your breasts or clitoris instead. You can also reduce the speed.
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To make a third-partner-fantasy more realistic, consider the following upgrades:
Describe what the third person is doing to her.
Talk about what the third person is doing to him.
Let her take over and watch how she uses the vibrator on herself. Men are often surprised at how women use vibrators on themselves versus how men use them with women. Many women prefer to stimulate the external genitalia—the pubic mound, the clitoris, the vaginal lips, the perineum, and the first third of the vagina. Men tend to think that a dildo or vibrator, because of its shape, is meant more for thrusting and deep penetration.
Finally, the next time you decide to watch a XXX DVD as part of your sex play, see how your toys can help you adapt or recreate what you see on screen, whether that’s a jock getting it on with two female cheerleaders or a jock with one female and one male cheerleader. With the right toys—and an active imagination—the erotic possibilities are endless . . .